Hello Tigress,
I’m Rachel.
I help women stop hiding their bodies–and themselves both at work and at home.
For the record
Fierce Confidence™ coach. Christian. Previous small business owner. Master pole dance instructor. Sensual mover. Enneagram 3. Extroverted Gemini.
But for reals—I'm passionate about inspiring women to embrace their full, vibracious selves. That means knowing who the eff you are, loving and appreciating your sensual body, and empowering yourself to claim the life you actually want to live.
The first turning point
I wasn't born with confidence.
8th grade. A roller rink. A boy.
I distinctly remember being in 8th grade and realizing that if I wanted to talk to that boy at the roller skating rink, I had to walk over and start a conversation out of thin air. Up until that monumental moment, the only way I met new people was surrounded by the armor of my friend group. Safe. And limiting.
That's exactly what your comfort zone feels like. Safe… but limiting.
Making that first solo connection felt exhilarating. Little did I know that one small moment of confidence would transcend into every other corner of my life.
Mid-twenties
Pole dancing built me up. Go-go dancing tore me down.
I started teaching pole at a studio and go-go dancing for an entertainment company. Pole boosted my body confidence. Go-go depleted it.
Promoters wouldn't re-hire me because my body wasn't "athletic" enough—meaning I was too fat for their taste. Every time I didn't get booked, I felt like absolute sh*t about my body.
I became obsessed with my weight. Starved myself when I wasn't at my "goal." Constantly chased external validation. Another turning point.
How I got here
So how did I become the body-loving, fierce, don't-giva-sh*t-what-anyone-thinks woman I am today? Pole dancing… kinda.
The real key
What pole gave me was the chance to discover what my body was actually capable of, and to develop trust in myself. Trust was the key for me. It's the key for you.
You already possess the key. You might just need help finding it. That's what I'll help you do.
My approach
I teach confidence with a sensual approach.
Women are constantly body- and sex-shamed by society, and I see exactly how that shows up in every other part of their lives—the boundaries they don't set, the opportunities they don't take, the relationships they tolerate.
I don't believe Christianity and sensuality are mutually exclusive. I've made it my work to help women find their voice, embrace their sensuality, and become a force of nature.
