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How To Be Confident How to be confident, Fierce Confidence

How To Be Confident

Ever wonder why you might not feel confident in yourself? It coooouuuld be that you don’t know who you are. Trust is the foundation of confidence. (Confidence comes from the latin word fidere which literally means to trust boo!). So in effect, confidence comes from trusting in yourself. But you can’t trust in someone you don’t know. After all, […]

Waiting To Respond Wait to respond, Fierce Wisdom Wednesday

Waiting To Respond

Viktor Frankl once said, “Between stimulus and response there is a space. In that space is our power to choose our response. In our response lies our growth and our freedom.”  When you feel a strong emotion like anger, sadness or annoyance in response to something that has happened, don’t rush to react. Give yourself […]

Pick-Me Behavior Pick me behavior, Fierce Wisdom Wednesday

Pick-Me Behavior

So…let’s talk about ‘Pick-me’ behavior. Specifically the difference between being chosen from a place of intention, verses being chosen out of convenience.   A couple of weeks ago I saw this funny Instagram reel of a woman dancing in a club with ‘Shrek’ dancing up behind her–unbeknownst to her. And her friends begin to signal to […]

Don’t Wait On Your Bestie To Live Your Best Life

Don’t Wait On Your Bestie To Live Your Best Life

Don’t wait on your bestie to live your best life. And what do I mean by this?Working at a dance studio, I talk to lots of people on the phone about our classes. And one of the common objections I hear why someone can’t sign up right now, is they’re too nervous to take the […]

Are You The Mean Boss? Are you the mean boss? Rachel Skye

Are You The Mean Boss?

Are you in a leadership role in a corporate or fast-paced environment where you feel like you have to be tough in order to get respect?  While there might be many reasons that lead a person to being that mean boss at work, I’m wondering if it’s coming from a place of insecurity. Do you lack […]

Success Follows Happiness…Not the Other Way Around Success follows happiness, Rachel Skye

Success Follows Happiness…Not the Other Way Around

How often do you feel the need to be successful at your job, career or goals in order to be happy?  As an Enneagram 3, I struggle hard with this one! I naturally tend to measure my self worth by how successful I am at my job, achieving my goals, and receiving accolades. I thrive on […]